Is your dog one of those that pulls at his leash constantly whenever there is a distraction? A child walks by, or he sees another dog? If a cat or small animal scoots by, or if a car wooshes in front of him, does he tug to get closer? Is he hard to manage while visiting the vet, or when you have visitors?

If the answer is yes to any of these questions, then your dog training needs to include self-control measures. A child is taught similar things when they are growing up (dont put your hand on the stove, or you cant have a cookie unless you ask, first), a dog requires the same kind of love and attention, too. Just as you would teach a dog how to sit, speak, come when called or stop, you also need to provide dog training related to self-control.

A few simple guidelines are all that are required for owners to follow. Join me here as I briefly discuss them.

Teach Commands, Not Actions

When your dog lunges at something, instead of pulling tight on their leash to get them to stop, you should instead be telling them what to do in a firm voice. Tugging, even lightly on their leash only tells a dog who the master is, but not what behavior he should be exhibiting. Use this time constructively to practice commands that are appropriate in the situation, instead.

Treat Your Dog like a Friend

Realize that sometimes, your dog just wont be able to do what you ask him to do, just like a good friend cant sometimes as well. Dog training shouldnt be about who is in charge, but instead about compromise and taking variables into account as required. So dont ask your dog to sit still if he is truly excited about something ask him instead to sit quietly.

Show Doggy How

Unless you show, or tell, your dog how to react, he wont know how. Instead, hell do what he always does, which is pull and tug at his leash. Give him positive ways in which to respond to every tempting situation, and with some guidance hell be able to do whats right.

Speak On His Terms

When you raise your voice or talk sharply, a dog hears this tone as being excited, similar to barking. It reinforces his already excited behavior, and gives him the idea that you are excited too, so it should be okay! Instead, use your dog training to speak softly and in quiet tones to get your dog to calm down, and hell realize soon enough its not appropriate behavior for the situation.